Sunday 4 November 2012

Ruby Sparks Feelings of Anger

(Warning Spoiler Alert)

I’d seen the trailer for this film. It looked funny, sweet, even like it might be romantic. A man (who acts very much like boy) writes a story. The main character is a pretty, lovable, slightly odd girl. The impossible happens; she materialises, true to the way he has written her and they fall in love. Aw. Ignoring the fact it was a blatant plagiarism of ‘Stranger than Fiction’, me and a friend decided to go and watch it.

Now initially you feel sorry for the protagonist, Calvin, an isolated writer, with no love in his life, frustrated that he cannot live up to everyone else’s expectations of him, and when you first meet Ruby, she seems insolent, arrogant, attention seeking; an older and duller Lolita with aspirations that she projects onto older men.

They used every cliché in the book in this film: jumping in a swimming pool, frolicking in an arcade, going to an open air cinema, cuddling in an open top car. Now I’m not against any of these activities and have been known to participate in said clichés, but the effort that went into this self-indulgent over display of passion was painful to watch. Apologies to anyone in the cinema who heard me audibly groan whenever a fake instance of overwhelming desire occurred.

If it had just been hack and sentimental, I probably wouldn’t have written this. I wasn’t quite prepared for the dark twist the film took. Inevitably the honeymoon period ends. Initially I was satisfied by this admission of reality, but when the cracks start to show, Calvin tries to glue them back together with his typewriter, by writing Ruby into the person he wants her to be. When she starts an art class, becomes independent and wants to stay out with her art friends, he makes it so she comes home, when this backfires and she becomes needy, he makes her act joyous all the time. Whenever something goes wrong, he sneaks up to his room and gets out his typewriter to change the way Ruby is acting, like Dorian Gray sneaking up to look at his decomposing picture; it’s sinister.

Calvin’s ex-girlfriend, Lila is discussed by Calvin and other characters before we meet her. We find out that she left him just after his father died, but not much other information. I think you are supposed to feel more sympathy for Calvin for knowing this fact, but when you actually meet her, Calvin’s behaviour has started to falter and she’s vulnerable, smart and likeable. She explains that she’s been writing, with no thanks to him, that he never encouraged her and that he always made her feel like a dilettante. After getting to know Calvin, you have a whole new perspective on Lila; it’s crazy to think that she stayed with him for 5 years.

The film reaches a climax when Calvin shows Ruby he can make her do anything he wants to her do. He sits at his typewriter and controls her like a puppet. He stops her from leaving, starts to undress her, forces her to spin round and makes her repeat that she loves him and she’ll never leave him. The desperate, selfish, controlling scene is horrific to watch. She finally collapses to the floor, broken and destroyed like a rag doll, who can’t be played with anymore.

After this, he realises what he has done and writes that he has set her free from the past. He leaves her a note and in the morning Ruby and all traces of her are gone. It’s not over though. Calvin decides to write a book about writing a book about a girl who came to life. He dedicates it to her and gives a seriously pretentious speech about his book, with some obligatory Catcher in the Rye references thrown in.

After this, he goes for a walk in the park and who should he bump into, but Ruby, who is reading his book, but obviously has no re-collection of what has happened between them. They begin to flirt and he reveals he is the author of the book. They share a few moments and the film ends with the insinuation that they will start afresh, that they’ll fall in love again and everything will end happily ever after.

What? He gets the girl? After all that? After treating her in such a disrespectful way? He still gets the girl? This can’t be right.

It saddens me that this is the way they chose to end the film. There is no punishment or justice for what Calvin has done. There’s no opposition to the concept of men’s urges to control and suppress women that this film seems to represent (or disapproval of any person’s need to control another human in this way, not just male to female). If anything, it’s made to seem acceptable, as long as you appear to be sorry for your actions. It’s like saying domestic abuse is okay if you write an apologetic book about it afterwards.

This film wasn’t kooky, quirky or romantic. It was a sick and depressing movie, masquerading as a rom-com and I would not recommend it.

And the worst thing is, you can’t help but think they only named the lead character Ruby so they could play THAT song.

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